I love a frosting that’s both creamy and tropical without ever feeling heavy. This coconut frosting is my go-to when I want a reliably smooth, spreadable topping with a clear coconut character. It balances cream cheese tang, butter silkiness, and the bright sweetness of cream of coconut so it works on everything from simple sheet cakes to cupcakes and even bars.
There are no gimmicks here: softened cream cheese and butter, powdered sugar worked in gradually, a pinch of salt and coconut extract for focus, then a touch of sweetened cream of coconut to bring everything together. The technique is straightforward and forgiving, which makes this a practical choice for home bakers who want a professional finish with minimal fuss.
Below you’ll find the ingredient notes, step-by-step instructions (kept exactly as the recipe requires), troubleshooting pointers, and storage tips. Read through once, assemble your ingredients, and you’ll have a frosting that spreads and pipes cleanly with true coconut flavor.
Gather These Ingredients

Ingredients
- 1 (8-ounce) package cream cheese, softened — provides tang, body, and a silky texture; make sure it’s softened for smooth mixing.
- 10 tablespoons butter, softened — adds richness and helps the frosting hold shape when piped or spread; should be softened but not melted.
- 1 pinch salt — balances sweetness and brightens flavor; a little goes a long way.
- 1 teaspoon coconut extract — concentrates the coconut flavor so it reads clearly against the dairy and sugar.
- 5-6 cups powdered sugar — sweetness and structure; start with the lower amount and add up to 6 cups for a stiffer frosting.
- 2-4 tablespoons cream of coconut, sweetened — adds coconut taste and thins the frosting to a spreadable consistency; add 1 tablespoon at a time.
Coconut Frosting: How It’s Done
- Place the softened 8-ounce package cream cheese and 10 tablespoons softened butter in the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment or in a large mixing bowl. Beat on medium speed until smooth and creamy, about 1–2 minutes. Scrape down the bowl and paddle once.
- Add the pinch of salt and 1 teaspoon coconut extract. Mix on low just until combined, scraping the bowl once.
- With the mixer on low, add the powdered sugar 1 cup at a time (a total of 5–6 cups), pausing to scrape down the bowl and paddle between additions so everything incorporates evenly.
- After all powdered sugar is incorporated, increase the mixer speed to medium and beat until the frosting is smooth, about 30–60 seconds.
- Add the sweetened cream of coconut 2–4 tablespoons, 1 tablespoon at a time, mixing on low between additions, until the frosting reaches a spreadable consistency. Scrape the bowl as needed and beat briefly to finish.
- Use the frosting immediately to spread or pipe. If you need to store it, refrigerate; before using chilled frosting, let it warm slightly at room temperature and rewhip briefly to restore spreadability.
What You’ll Love About This Recipe

- Creamy, stable texture — the combination of cream cheese and butter gives a smooth, pipeable consistency that’s not overly sweet when you stop at 5 cups of powdered sugar.
- True coconut flavor — coconut extract and sweetened cream of coconut work together so the frosting tastes distinctly coconutty without being cloying.
- Versatility — spread it on cake layers, pipe rosettes on cupcakes, or use a thin layer as filling between cookies.
- Controlled sweetness and texture — adding powdered sugar gradually and finishing texture with 2–4 tablespoons of cream of coconut means you can dial the firmness and sweetness to suit the application.
- Minimal equipment — a stand mixer or a hand mixer and a bowl are all you need.
What to Use Instead

- If you prefer a slightly less tangy frosting, stick to the lower end of the powdered sugar range (5 cups) and don’t add extra salt beyond the single pinch.
- If you want a firmer frosting for tall cake decorating, use the full 6 cups of powdered sugar; that increases structure without changing the ingredient list.
- Need a softer, more spreadable finish for a naked cake? Use 2 tablespoons cream of coconut and stop at 5 cups of powdered sugar — both are within the recipe’s ranges and change texture predictably.
- If you’re short on coconut extract, omit it and rely on the cream of coconut for coconut flavor; you’ll still have a noticeable coconut note thanks to the sweetened cream of coconut.
Equipment at a Glance
- Stand mixer with paddle attachment — ideal for hands-free mixing and a perfectly smooth finish. A large mixing bowl and a hand mixer work just fine.
- Rubber spatula — for scraping the bowl and ensuring even incorporation.
- Measuring cups and spoons — accurate measurements help deliver consistent texture.
- Offset spatula or piping bag and tips — depending on whether you’ll spread or pipe the frosting.
Things That Go Wrong
- Grainy texture: this usually means the powdered sugar wasn’t fully incorporated. Add the sugar slowly, keep the mixer on low during additions, and scrape the bowl between cups.
- Too thin frosting: you may have added too much cream of coconut. Use the lower amount in the 2–4 tablespoon range, then rewhip. If it’s still thin, add a little more powdered sugar only up to the 6-cup limit.
- Too stiff or overly sweet: using the full 6 cups of powdered sugar will stiffen the frosting. If that’s not what you want, reduce to 5 cups and add cream of coconut to loosen it.
- Curdling or separation: if your butter or cream cheese is too cold compared to the other ingredients, the mixture can look lumpy. Make sure both are softened before you start, then scrape and beat until smooth.
- Frosting not holding shape when piping: chill briefly to firm it up if it’s too soft, then rewhip lightly before piping to bring back smoothness.
Make It Fit Your Plan
- For cupcakes: make this recipe as written and use it immediately to pipe or spread. If you plan to stack cupcakes in a box, use a slightly stiffer mix (closer to 6 cups powdered sugar) so the frosting keeps its shape in transit.
- For layer cakes: aim for a spreadable consistency using 2–3 tablespoons cream of coconut and 5–6 cups powdered sugar depending on how stiff you want the crumb coat vs. final coat to be.
- For a lighter finish: stop at 5 cups powdered sugar and 2 tablespoons cream of coconut. The frosting will be a bit softer and less sweet, which can be pleasant with dense cakes.
- Scaling: follow the same ingredient ratios and technique. Keep the same order of steps and incorporate powdered sugar slowly to maintain texture.
Pro Perspective
Work at room temperature. That’s the single most important piece of professional advice. Properly softened cream cheese and butter come together faster and with a smoother result. If either is too cold, the mixer will struggle and you’ll end up with a lumpy base that takes more beating to fix.
When adding powdered sugar, keep the mixer on low and add the sugar in cups. This minimizes dusting and gives the dry sugar a chance to hydrate with the fats. Finish at medium speed briefly — that final beat is what yields a silky, pipeable frosting.
Finally, don’t overdo the cream of coconut at first. Add it 1 tablespoon at a time so you can see how it affects both flavor and texture. It’s easy to loosen a stiff frosting, but hard to take the liquid back once added.
Save It for Later
Store leftover frosting in an airtight container in the refrigerator. The recipe notes refrigeration; when you’re ready to use it again, let it sit at room temperature until slightly softened, then rewhip briefly to restore spreadability. This brings back the light, airy texture lost when chilled.
Common Qs About Coconut Frosting
- Can I make this ahead? Yes. Refrigerate the frosting in an airtight container. Before using, allow it to warm slightly and rewhip to regain smoothness.
- How do I adjust the sweetness? Use 5 cups of powdered sugar for a less sweet frosting; 6 cups produces a firmer, sweeter result. The recipe gives a 5–6 cup range so you can decide.
- What does the cream of coconut do? It adds sweet coconut flavor and thins the frosting to a spreadable consistency. Add it 1 tablespoon at a time and use between 2–4 tablespoons depending on the texture you want.
- Can I skip the coconut extract? Yes. If you omit it, rely on the sweetened cream of coconut for coconut flavor. The frosting will still read coconut-forward, though the extract sharpens that note.
- Why is my frosting grainy? Usually because powdered sugar wasn’t fully incorporated. Add the sugar slowly and scrape the bowl between additions; a short final beat on medium smooths it out.
- Can this frosting be frozen? The recipe recommends refrigerating. Freezing may change texture; if you must freeze, plan to thaw in the fridge and rewhip before use, but note the texture can be slightly different.
See You at the Table
This coconut frosting is forgiving, flavorful, and quick to make once you have your ingredients at room temperature. Follow the steps as written, tune sweetness and texture within the recipe’s ranges, and you’ll have a frosting that looks and tastes like it belongs in a bakery. Happy frosting — and if you try it on a cake or cupcakes, I’d love to hear what you paired it with.

Coconut Frosting
Equipment
- icing spatula
- Sifter
- electric hand mixer
Ingredients
Ingredients
- 1 8-ounce packagecream cheese, softened
- 10 tablespoonsbutter softened
- 1 pinchsalt
- 1 teaspooncoconut extract
- 5-6 cupspowdered sugar
- 2-4 tablespoonscream of coconut sweetened
Instructions
Instructions
- Place the softened 8-ounce package cream cheese and 10 tablespoons softened butter in the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment or in a large mixing bowl. Beat on medium speed until smooth and creamy, about 1–2 minutes. Scrape down the bowl and paddle once.
- Add the pinch of salt and 1 teaspoon coconut extract. Mix on low just until combined, scraping the bowl once.
- With the mixer on low, add the powdered sugar 1 cup at a time (a total of 5–6 cups), pausing to scrape down the bowl and paddle between additions so everything incorporates evenly.
- After all powdered sugar is incorporated, increase the mixer speed to medium and beat until the frosting is smooth, about 30–60 seconds.
- Add the sweetened cream of coconut 2–4 tablespoons, 1 tablespoon at a time, mixing on low between additions, until the frosting reaches a spreadable consistency. Scrape the bowl as needed and beat briefly to finish.
- Use the frosting immediately to spread or pipe. If you need to store it, refrigerate; before using chilled frosting, let it warm slightly at room temperature and rewhip briefly to restore spreadability.
Notes
STORE.
Place frosting in an airtight container and keep it in the refrigerator for 5-7 days or in the freezer for up to 3 months. Thaw, if needed, and stir before using.
Store frosted cake.
Store the frosted cake/cupcakes covered in the fridge for 3-4 days.
